We are a Private Club
We welcome new members through referrals from our Social Butterflies.
In order to be admitted as a member of The Socialites Club a Candidate for Membership must submit an application to the Membership Committee, interview with Nancy O, and receive a formal invitation to join.
Join the Socialites Club: Where Friendship Meets Elegance
Experience the Joy of Belonging
Imagine stepping into a world where every gathering feels like an exclusive celebration, and every encounter leads to lasting friendships. The Socialites Club welcomes women who cherish genuine connections and unforgettable experiences.
Choosing Your Seat at the Table
Each Society level is thoughtfully designed to meet women where they are — with more access and intimacy as you move deeper into the circle.
There is no right or wrong choice. What matters most is that you feel beautifully at home.
Society Member — $95/year
For women who love beautiful gatherings and the freedom to choose what fits their life.
Includes:
Annual Socialites Club membership
Access to purchase tickets to Socialites events
Member pricing at events
Invitations to partner-hosted gatherings
Signature Society — $195/year
For women who appreciate ritual, recognition, and a more curated Socialites experience.
Includes everything in Society Member, plus:
One Signature Society Gathering per year, where members are formally presented with their Signature Welcome Wine or Champagne Glass
Occasional surprise enhancements curated by Nancy O
Recognition as a Signature Society member
Eligibility for Inner Circle consideration
Many of our long-standing Socialites naturally find themselves stepping into Signature Society as life opens up — but every seat at the table matters.
Inner Circle — Invitation Only
An intimate, invitation-only circle for women who desire the deepest level of access, connection, and celebration.
Includes:
First access to all Socialites events
Two exclusive Inner Circle experiences per year
A private circle of hand selected women
Personally hosted by Nancy O
Guaranteed access to limited-capacity gatherings
The Red Shoe Cocktail Party — a private Inner Circle celebration held during The Socialites White Party weekend
Surprise Inner Circle pop-ups — think a luxe spa day, a whispered invitation, or a “meet me here” moment.
Are You Ready to Join?
Apply Today: Complete the application form below. Membership is by invitation only and includes a personal interview.
Approval: Once reviewed, Nancy O will schedule a meeting for an interview to ensure each woman reflects the grace, warmth, and values that define the Socialites Club.
Begin Your Journey: Once accepted, Step into the extraordinary world of The Socialites Club!
A Few Guidelines
This is your space to celebrate joy, laughter, and meaningful conversations. Here, we leave behind politics, drama, and worries. Bring your charm, wit, and positivity—be the most joyful and captivating woman in the room. Together, let’s live beautifully.